False Analogy there.
Did you know that some parents kick their children out of the house if they refuse to listen to them?
"My house, my rules. If you don't like it, then leave."
Is the parent evil and wrong?
Would you prefer the parent spoil the children and let them do anything they want?
Suppose a parent has a son who refuses to get a job.
Should the parents kick the son out or let him keep living there mooching off the parents?
Suppose a parent has a son, who refuses to obey or get a job. Should the parents lock him in the basement and torture him with gasoline and fire?? You won't get around this. See, you can't have your cake and eat it too. It works both ways. Either the "my house my rules"
goes (and then its A-OK for the parents to torture the child with gasoline and fire) or it is not OK. Which is it?
Can you stop this hypocrisy and get honest?