I see life every time I look up at the night stars. To me planets, stars, suns, the universe itself is life. Whether there's minuscule life such as "us" out there I find to be highly irrelevant compared to that.
But it's all dead. The only thing that matters is your family and neighbors.
Even if we pretend that the nearest star is 5 light years away and teeming
with beings, your family is all that matters.
Unless you worship rocks. If you have a pet rock, I apologize for my rudeness.