Just remember: If you want to know what's so great about Christianity and the Bible, it would be obvious if you would only read it.
Please overlook the fact the vast majority of them haven't read it themselves. Rather, they think that by studying John 3:16 for 20 years gives them insight to the rest of the Bible, and that it must be just as lovey-dovey as that verse. Also that makes them qualified to say that they have read the Bible as well. Anything that isn't 'lovey-dovey' is just because you don't understand it correctly.
By thier logic, you clearly haven't read the bible and need to read it via thier very own, 'Better than Perfect' way of reading it to know how to read it right.