The only thing that matters is your family and neighbors. Even if we pretend that the nearest star is 5 light years away and teeming with beings, your family is all that matters.
You, SW, do not get to determine what *we* think matters -- You can only speak for yourself, and we for ourselves.
IMO family is important but it is not everything, and in many cases it may actually be a detriment to one's sense of meaning and purpose. Furthermore, it's counterproductive and IMO a bit silly to insist that someone love their family to the exclusion of -- Or instead of -- someone or something else. Love is what it is, unpredictable and personal.