This would be true if your experience were universal. It isn't.
Truth is, there are lots of very informed Christians who lives very fullfilling lives and some of their women are even successful.
Yes, that's true, but many many of us have had the same experience as CG. Those Christians who are tolerant, etc, are not followign their bible and they have essentially created another religion. I've also noticed that Christians are much nicer when not in a herd. it's harder to be an ass if you don't have someone supporting you.