Get help, and then come back here. You can have healthy interactions. But you 've got to listen to people and not take everything as an attack. If your current counselor isn't working out, then find another. My husband had to try a couple until he found someone he could work with, and it took a while to get a good diagnosis, ultra rapid cycling bipolar disorder. In my experience, you have some of the symptoms as he does when off his meds. As I've said, you've often given great comments here.
I did not claim anybody said abortion was the only way out of poverty. I said; "you make it sound like" and that was sarcasm. That sarcasm was explained in the same post. The 5 women I know are still poor as fuck.
You have no idea what sarcasm is. JB. It is not making false claims about others. And again, you try very hard to repeat your nonsense, by mentioning how poor these women are.
I have asked for quotes of these false claims I have made and none have been provided.
That has already been done. Again and again and again. It doesn't work to repeat a request that has already been satisfied, as if you think people will believe that it hasn't. As you'll see, I did a bit down below just in case it might help.
I did not guess that mental illness is related to abortion. That is lived experience. Just like a fisherman can tell you a worm coils when you put it on the hook. Something you might not know if you have never fished with worms. That was not an accident. I knew it. It's a fact in my life. I am in the majority of 75% of women seeking abortion. I asked how many women that had abortions got out of poverty? No answer. All I got was in keeps them from being more poor because kids cost money.
Since you asked for where you made false claims, we can continue right here. You claimed that abortion is related to mental illness and that this is the reason women get abortions. And again, you repeat your nonsense about how many women got out of poverty by abortion only, and *this* shows again that you did indeed try to claim that others said that this was possible when they did not.
I had my abortion because I already had one child molested by my brother. I was not going to take that chance with another child in my family full of pervs.
I am curious if you reported any of this to the authorities.
In post 146 I proved I'm not the only one. I used reliable sources. That showed: 1) 75% of women seeking abortion are poor 2) poverty causes depression, a form of mental illness 3) poor women are more likely to experience abuse. Conclusion abortion is related to mental illness. I mentioned impulse control. That includes sexual behavior.
Albeto showed how this nonsense was wrong at #154. Funny how those links did not say one word about abortion being related to mental illness. You claimed causation. And now we have one of the worst attempts at showing causation I have seen on this forum and that includes the theists. One of the links is a blog post that cites nothing. You really think this is research, JB? You claim you could like us "to death" and this is what you ended up with.
I never said pulling out was 100% effective, but it does work 75-96% of the time. This is in the link I shared. It's more about men taking 1/2 the responsibility for unwanted pregnancy.
You said it was a "pretty good" way of birth control and that is not true. I also do not recall you showing a link, but I sure did and I gave those numbers and that 1 out of 4 failure rate, and the 96% is if you use it perfectly. It's bullshit that pulling out makes men more responsible. What is a woman going to do when that doesn't happen, JB? Why would anyone be stupid enough to put their life in someone else's hands that was so easy to take care of yourself?
She shouldn't have called me trump. I just posted how his election triggered me. She endangered my life. She triggered my fight or flight mechanisms. I actually took it easy on her. Thankfully I have coping skills now. But that post did increase my heart rate. Cortisol was released and that causes harm to my body.
I said you were like Trump, and I have no regret in pointing that you are very like him in quite a few ways so far. You have no problem in mentioning Trump yourself, so I don't believe your claims regarding that your life was in danger. No need to claim you supposedly "took it easy" on me, because there is no reason to believe that either. You seem to be making these claims in further attempts at manipulation.
You apologized for it knowing it was wrong. Her post was angry and insulting. That's crossing language boundaries. People need healthy boundaries. People say stuff online they wouldn't say to your face.
Oh, I would say this to your face, JB. I do not put up with people who try to pee on my face and tell me its raining. The only boundaries you seem to want is for people to not dare show you to be wrong. That won't happen.
She's the one who needs to control her emotions.
She keeps on trying to communicate with me in this way. Our exchanges prove it not effective at all.
Calling someone Trump and calling someone disgusting are the same damn thing. Especially when I'm not guilty.
You have again made false claims, and have refused to support those claims. You claim that Trump does things intentionally but you do not. However, when your repeated claims are pointed out and you reiterate them, then yes, you do things intentionally. You have not bothered to read the information given to you to show you how you are wrong. And no, saying that you share similar qualities with Trump is not the same as calling someone disgusting. The fact that you ignore the information given does show that exchanges with you are often not effective, but that is not because I have shown you information and have pointed out that you have been less than honest. You are correct (in a later post) that I have said that I do not respect you. You have given me no reason to, and respect is earned not demanded.
The two of you are trying real hard to discourage my chosen major. How about just a simple 123 list of the false claims instead of an extremely hateful manifesto?
Of course you two agree with each other. You always do in our exchanges here.
It's obvious you don't like me so why engage me? That feeling is mutual.
I engage you because I don't like false information to be spread as if you have some right to take away the ability of people to make informed decisions just because being wrong upsets you. The reason I am pointing out that your chosen major may be a problem is that you have no problem in making false claims to people, and that you get blindly upset when someone dares point out that you are wrong. Those demonstrated attributes will make college very hard for you.
We agree on legal abortion.
Education gets men and women out of poverty.
We agree mental illness is related to abortion.
We agree anti-abortionists are not pro-life.
You have yet to explain how education is received by people who have no resources or what few resources they have are spent on the children they have. You have claimed that abortion causes mental illness and in that I do not agree. You want to see the nonsense you've claimed?
Do you understand that it takes mental illness in the form of insecurity of one's self esteem to be a multiple abortioner?
I am convinced if you solve the problem of poverty you avoid producing suffering thereby avoiding mental illness.
Y'all make it sound like getting an abortion is hitting the lottery.
the majority of women have some form of mental illness already and the abortion intensifies the pre-existing condition
Atheists promote promiscuity.
Nobody wants to get an abortion. No little girl dreams of growing up and getting 20 abortions. There is a cause and it's impulse control. That is a symptom of mental illness.
I'm getting an intuition that some people here care about abortion but don't give a flying fuck about women's issues on a broader scale. That's because of the consistent denial that mental illness and abortion are not intertwined. I wonder if they own stock?
I do not agree that I'm the pos Velkyn puts forward. I see no need to continue subjecting myself to this written verbal abuse. It's not effective to communicate with me in this manner. You are certainly free to do it. It doesn't mean you should. It falls under the definition of insanity: doing the same thing expecting a different result.
POS? I assume you might mean "piece of shit"? Exactly where have I called you a piece of shit, JB? If you think that being shown and told you are wrong is verbal abuse, you denigrate those who suffer verbal abuse. I repeat myself in the hopes you will listen. And for someone who claims that others should not "diagnose" her, you seem to have little problem in doing it yourself.
For me to continue having any more coversations/fights with you two will put me in that same category.
If you give me a simple list of the false claims I will address it. I won't address insults with anything but insults.
Again, where are the insults made to you, JB?
With your repeated false claims about myself and others, then your recantations of these, and then we're back again to the same nonsense. There is no reason to forgive you anything. You can be liked, but that requires you to think about what you post. In large degree, you caused your own problems here. If you are having suicidal thoughts, please call a hotline or your counselor NOW.