HIS nonexistence make whatever your questions means irrelevant.
He exists in YOUR mind, and in the mind of OTHERS, but that's doesn't' make him real.
It is not your job to spread your fear to others. The world would be so much nicer if the constant fright of believers didn't muck everything up.
There is no cost to living life intelligently and sans myth. There is huge cost to believing in a non-existent deity.
You will never meet him, but you are paying the price right now by thinking that you will.