I am starting to wonder about friends infected by this god virus. Maybe not to the point of outright distrust right away - but having second thoughts.
As you may have found, I don't think many xians give that much critical thoughts to their beliefs, and I would hope the (demonstrably disturbed) ones you have talked to and have admitted they would kill their kids will start thinking about their position. Maybe you helped some...?
I will say that in my many years as a xian, I eventually swore off using "xian businesses" long before I deconverted. Foolishly, I once thought ads for businesses mentioning xian or that stupid ichthys (fish) symbol meant I would be dealing with a person of high morals... wrong. I was burned many times and finally just decided (as a xian) I would avoid anyone who put that nonsense in their ad, or I heard recommended by a fellow xian "because so and so is a believer."
1. xian auto mechanic - not only diagnosed a problem that did not exist on my vehicle and offered to fix it for a "cheaper price since he was a believer and didn't rip people off" but got furious when I got a second opinion that was a) correct and b) much cheaper. When I warned a fellow churchmember about how I'd been treated, the xian mechanic heard about it and told me I should "forgive him for his error and move on" - not that he had admitted it or even apologized.
2. A recommended xian dentist who diagnosed me with four quadrant advanced periodontal disease (I had none of the symptoms and nearly went into stunned shock when I heard this at a routine cleaning). Two dentists' opinions later - no such disease and both told me the guy was trying to scam me and told me to report it to the state licensing department (I did).
3. Xian painter who told me he could get a better deal on house paint for me on his account at a paint store. I bought the paint, gave it to him, and he returned it and usd a much cheaper version and pocketed the difference. I found out by finding the 3 five gallon buckets disposed of in my neighbor's trash (and called the store and found out the details - he claimed he got mixed up lol).
Just a few examples, before I wised up...
Now, are there jerk atheist, agnostic, etc businesses, babysitters, etc? Sure, but they don't advertise to draw people in with their holier than thou act...