I find this over and over again on this forum - what seems to be the simplest and directest question takes pages and pages of dodging and backsliding and ignoring until - maybe - you finally get an answer.
I'm sure there is a lot of discussion to be had about the psychology of it all, but I'm interested in a different question.
If there IS a god out there, and that god is as just and right and GOOD as most believers would have us believe - then why is all the dodging necessary in the first place? Surely a god so good, so perfect, so right, would lead to discussions along the lines of:
Anfauglir: Can you explain why your god.....
Believer: (firmly) Yes. It is because.....(specific and direct answer).
Anfauglir: Ah, I see - that makes perfect sense. Thank you.
Now THAT kind of god - the one where there was no need to dodge, no need to prevaricate, no need to shy away from "awkward" questions......THAT is a god that I could really get behind. But these gods who are so tricksy, so convoluted, so demonstrative of so many negative behaviours that their believers have to dodge the questions and go into such lengthy apologetics......well, there just seems something suspicious about it all.
A truly good, truly godly god, would be very unlikely to raise any of these questions in the first place. And it certainly wouldn't require the degree of evasion and goal-post shifting that we see so much of on these forums.
If there was a truly good and godly god, it would be clear. No nagging doubts, no endless arguments. It would be clear and obvious to all. The fact that it isn't may not necessarily mean there isn't a god out there. But it sure makes it clear that there is something seriously wrong with the picture.