I don't want to get in trouble for "over quoting" (whatever that means) so I'll reply to death over life hence :
You said :
"Not one bit. I don't think it's cool because I personally hate drugs. Early experiences have nothing to do with it. In addition, it smells worse than sewage. It is different strokes for different folks. And with that being said, I don't care who thinks it is cool or not cool. If you wish to smoke, go for it, as long as it's not around me in person. I disagree with it, but to each their own."
If you came over to my house, I would smoke if I felt like it. I'd be prepared to do it far enough from you so that it won't bother you, I'd offer to open a window, and anything else that comes to mind which would help you. But I'd still smoke. I'd expect and hope that you would be honest enough to not say that it bothers you if it doesn't. If we were in a pub and we were sitting at a small table together I'd smoke and blow well away from you. I'd even move the ashtray to another table if need be. But I'd still smoke. It's about compromise. And if it bothered you slightly, I'd expect you to compromise. If you got all righteous with me, I'd kiss you. Mwaaah!
Is that fair?