You're right. Singles should have just as many rights and so should trios and any other combination of partnerships.
I have no problem with incest (gay or not) or twins marrying each other. That should be legal. Any two or more consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want together.
seems we completely agree on this issue, but the problems is that majority of gays and straight do not. they still are against incest marriages or polygamous families.
and I see this not fair, you do not deserve any rights if you deny same rights to others.
That was point of my topic.
[Now hold on there. I'm talking about preventing people from abusing positions of trust. A 30 year old has a clear advantage over a 15 year old.
I know 18 is an arbitrary age, but it is the average age in which a person reaches physical biological maturity (i.e. adulthood). It is the most logical line to draw in my opinion.
I have no problem with minors having sex from puberty onwards... but they must be close to the same age. They probably shouldn't be having sex with anyone over 2 years their elder until they reach 18.
I also agree with you about abuse but. that's nothing special what cant happen with adults. 18 year girl can marry 70 years old geezer and work as prostitute.
adults can be exploited no less than children. however don't forget that 15 year girl is also quite capable to exploit 30 years old man.
also there are other forms of very harmful child exploiting. sex is quite innocent comparing to cases when mother uses her child as surrogate husband dropping all her emotional problems in him. or when parents use their children as weapons against each other.
I think it would be far better to live in loving family where you have occasional petting with you uncle, than family where your mother is using you as tool to harm your father, or when she is constantly reminding you how miserable is her life and ho she gave everything to you.
I recommend you to check a book "covert incest" and you will see that pedophiles are last thing to worry about.
By the way you should remember that pedophiles rarely have sex with kids, that just physically impossible and if they do that child may be severely hurt .
these who do that are not much respected. typically they limit themselves to anonymous chat or sometimes they touch some kids in a way they don't even understand what happened.
most of child abuse is just inappropriate touching.
There's no easy way around this. No parent would want their kids to be in a position of trust with an openly declared pedophile. Just as I wouldn't want to work for someone who openly declares they fantasize about murdering employees. Not that they'll take any action on it ... but they'd be better off keeping that kind of shit to themselves.
Then how it is different when parents refuse to send their kids to gay teacher?
I do not talk about cases when pedophile or gay puts big flashing sign on his door, but such information may leak and then you loose your job.
just like your employee may be discovered that he posted snuff story about murdering his coworkers. does that qualify as reason to fire him?
Just because there's a black market within a black market doesn't make things any better. When a person obtains child porn they don't necessarily know how the source came into possession of it. Fact is, people are enslaving and exploiting children for the purpose of profiting from the distribution of child porn and child prostitution and by obtaining child porn one is supporting that black market industry.
you can use emule and download any kind of porn but sometime cops will knock to your door and you will get in jail for piracy of child porn.
I completely agree that if you buy it from someone that can be illegal, but if you simply click on some file name with your mouse and get in jail for that I thinks its to much.
I am not into that stuff, but still it is interesting to see what is all that about, or else you will be completely ignorant, and yet I cant even do legal research on that thing.
what If I want to write article about child abuse where i should get required material legally?
also if you do research you need to quotes to prove your ideas, but how you can do that if all material is strictly forbidden?
I'm just saying it should be legal. How to go about changing legislation on this in the US is a whole other ballpark.
Unfortunately you cant even talk about such things openly and most people even do not discuss that possibility.
and if you talk about such things in porn forum you will be banned.
Okay ... but providing benefits to people who adopted a child is only fair. I would want to encourage adoption versus people just breeding. We don't need more people in the world. There are plenty of children already here that need taking care of.
I completely agree on that, but at least where I live you wont get any benefits for your child unless you are married.