But seriously, if I were blindfolded, and given a blow job, and reached orgasm as a result, how would I ever know whether the person was a male or female? A mucous membrane is a mucous membrane.
Lol... I love it when you get all romantic J.
Say "mucous membrane" again... Only type it S L O W E R this time!
Anyway, I guess it's not a popular opinion, but I also think the idea of male homosexual sex is revolting. Just all that hair, and sweat, and grunting, and the umm smells I've heard about, let alone the, uh, actual visual of butthole violations n' stuff... I just... I have a hard time even typing about it.
Now thanks to this thread I feel all self-consious and shitty because apparently "it's gross" is something I'm not supposed to think if I'm properly adjusted and enlightened or something...? That really sucks man, 'cos there's literally nothing I can do about it. It's involuntary! Kinda feel the same way about feet fetishes in all honesty lol. I mean come on they're like mutated little hands!!! SO gross.
I mean, look, a friend of mine worked as a manager at a porn store for awhile, and if I'd go in to meet up with him around closing time and there was gay porn on the in-house system, I'd seriously get pukey. First or second time it happened I ended up dry-heaving in that filthy porn store bathroom. Not pleasent.
I feel like a shitty person because I know that's got to be SO insulting to gay folks, and besides their sexy time stuff totally grossing me out, I've got zero problem with gay folks.
It's not like I think gay people are revolting as people - not at all; that's retarded. I mean s**t, 9 times out of 10 gay dudes are cleaner and better kempt than *I* am, that's for damn sure. They dress better, too.
But yeah. The idea of the physical expression of mano y mano shagging gives me the screaming heebie jeebies, but in an emotional, social, human sense... Love is love man. Whoever it's between. And I think it's something that should ABSOLUTELY be encouraged. If you love somebody, love the hell out of them! Drive that s**t 'till the wheels come off! It's SO utterly wrong to tell people who or what they should love. Nobody's got that right.
I look at it this way - who cares? Really. Who gives a f**k what people do behind closed doors? It's not like anybody's forcing me to watch all the intimate parts of somebody's relationship. Unless you've got some unorthadox relationships with your friends, chances are you'll never actually see *any* couple you know get freaky in the sheets in the first place, let alone the gay ones, so who cares?
Meh. So that's that. Guess I'm an a**hole that I can't appreciate all the facets of gaydom, but love is one of the greatest parts of living, and I will absolutely stand up for any two people's right to get gross with each other, whatever form that takes lol.
Just, gah... PLEASE don't talk about the gritty details in public man. It bothers me when ANYBODY does that; oversexed people who disclose detailed sexual accounts in public to people they don't know. Guy, girl, two guys, two girls... I'm not a prude at all, but come on. I don't know you, and statistically, in this country, chances are you're NOT that attractive that people would want to visualize whatever you're talking about. Just... keep it in your pants, and keep it to yourself unless we go way back.
Oh, and on topic... Sad is an understatement. That shit is fucking heart breaking. That poor kid. Feel even worse for his family; he's gone... But they have to live with it.