I've been trying to peel back the layers of my own worldview and biases to see where I can improve myself. I'm not sure I can relate to "struggles" at all. In fact, I am starting to feel some shame in being enormously privileged in many ways precisely because I am a white, American male. It's easy to find ways in which we each feel slighted or harmed in various ways. It's easy to push blame for one's life outward towards all things except one's self.
If we had a level playing field, it would be much easier to identify "struggles", I think. But in these times, I have found that racism and sexism are dominating our culture in the most negative ways. I wish I knew how to fix it, but I don't. The best I can do is identify where I can improve, and literally change my own behavior and thinking.