Without others input how do you propose I evolve?
Lukvance, if there is anything that you've proven on this forum throughout your entire presence here - throughout every single one of your posts
- it is that you do not appear to value the input of others
You want a quote from your posts that back that up or something? I really can't do that, as this is a conclusion borne from the observation of a pattern of behavior. There is no singular quote from you that serves as singular evidence of this conclusion. It is a long observed trend of you dismissing, often via omission
or blatant ignoring of
, input to you from others. Often, it has manifested in the form of someone providing their input
regarding your arguments and your general behavior
, you countering with a "nuh-huh I ain't no do that" or a "well whatever but yeah it still means that done be true", and you not changing your argument/claim and not modifying your behavior in any form or fashion
without so much as a <expletive deleted> explanation as to why your behavior and retorts are not
dismissing, avoidant, irrelevant, illogical, unsupported, unwarranted, nonsensical, contradictory, and/or blatantly false
when it clearly is so
. But singular instances of such behavior do not indicate someone who is being intentionally dismissive
of the input of others. Singular instances can be readily explained by the fallible nature of being human
. We screw up sometimes. It just freakin' happens.
So yeah; we - everyone - let it slide once in a while.
But man...man oh man...with you. Over, and over, and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and again, you parrot the exact same things
, regardless of what is or is not said to you, pointed out to you, provided you reference to, yadayadayada. Repeatedly
And this above...this makes you look like you think that no one has genuinely tried to reason with you
. You pretend that all the words that people say to you are by default wrong
without having to consider it
I...I need you to understand just how damn disrespectful
I mean - do you
value the input of others? Saying
that you do is one thing. Actually behaving as if you value the input of others
is a loosely-related but essentially different thing
I know it's the emergency room. I know
it is. I realize
that there are boundaries of behavior that should not be crossed - that are generally agreed upon as to be grossly inappropriate
Sometimes when I need to let some anger and frustration out, I bite down on my knuckle. It is not a good habit, and I recognize that, but I have not really done a whole lot in my life to correct it. At least as far as I can tell, it has helped me to stem saying things to people that I otherwise may have, and there have been those times that has been of clear benefit. I have, over the years, taken some steps to reduce
how much I do it though. Sometimes a scream in to a pillow will suffice. Other times require the proverbial headdesking.
Understand something, Lukvance - my finger is bleeding